The Healing Power of Song: How Singing Has Enriched My Life from College to THD
There is something magical about singing, something deeper than melody, harmony, or pitch. Long before I ever read studies about antibodies, immune boosts, or stress reduction, I felt what singing could do. And looking back now, singing has been a quiet but constant thread woven through every stage of my life.
College Years: My First Stage
My love affair with singing truly began in my college years, when I joined the choir. I was young, eager, curious, and full of energy. Singing with a group felt electrifying, there is nothing like the vibration of dozens of voices coming together with one purpose. The camaraderie, the discipline of rehearsals, and the joy of performing opened a part of my heart I didn’t know existed.
Married Life: Harmony in Faith and Love
Years later, singing took on a new meaning. During my married life, I sang in our church choir alongside Macrine (RIP), my late spouse for over 63 years. Our Sundays were sacred. It wasn’t just music. it was worship, community, and partnership.
Standing next to her, lifting our voices in the same hymns, remains one of my most treasured memories. Choir practice became our mid-week bonding, a reminder that even amidst work, parenting, and responsibilities, we still had a shared song to carry us through.
Learning the Craft: Six Months of Voice Lessons
Top Photo: Macrine and My Voice Recital : Bottom Photo: Sunset and the Landscaping of our House Backyard with the Pinole Hills at the background
At one point, I even took six months of formal voice lessons. As a beginner, I learned breathing techniques, vocal placement, posture, and confidence. And yes, the nerves and excitement of singing at my teacher’s recital! I wasn’t aiming to become a professional; I simply wanted to grow. Those lessons gave me courage, structure, and appreciation for the vocal instrument we all carry. In this recital, I was first to sing because I was the most inexperience student. I asked my vocal teacher, why I was first in the program. She told me because, I was the best. The statement immediate erased my stage bright, and I sang my two songs with Gusto and Bravado. I will never forget the memories of my first public singing experience.
Today at THD: Karaoke, Community, and Pure Joy
Now here in THD, singing continues to be one of my greatest joys. Whether it’s a karaoke night, a sing-along gathering, or simply humming a familiar tune in my room, music keeps me energized and connected.
There’s something beautiful about a group of seniors grabbing a microphone and belting out old favorites. We may laugh at missed notes or forgotten lyrics, but the joy is real and shared.
The Science Is Catching Up to What We Already Know
Interestingly, modern research shows what many lifelong singers feel intuitively: music is medicine.
Studies suggest that singing can:
Boost immune function, including increasing levels of certain protective antibodies like SIgA
Reduce cortisol, the body’s primary stress hormone
Improve lung function and breath control
Strengthen memory and mental sharpness
Enhance social connection, combating loneliness and isolation
Lift mood through endorphins and dopamine release
In other words, singing doesn’t just feel good, it is good for you and your immune system.
Why Singing Matters at Every Age
Singing is a gift you can enjoy whether you’re 9 or 91. You don’t need perfect pitch or formal training. You don’t even need a microphone, just the willingness to let your voice rise.
For me, singing has been:
A source of friendships
A form of worship
A stress reliever
A memory-keeper
A way to stay connected to Macrine
A joyful part of my daily life here at THD
Every time I sing a song from my past, I am transported, to college halls, to church pews, to a recital stage, to evenings at home.
A Life Lived in Song
As I reflect on my musical journey, I am grateful. Singing has carried me through decades. It has comforted me in loss, uplifted me in celebration, and kept my spirit young.
So if you ever wonder whether singing is worth doing, whether you're in a choir, a church, or a karaoke room, my answer is simple:
Yes. Sing. Sing loudly. Sing often. Let your heart lead the melody.
Because singing doesn’t just fill the room, it fills the soul and the heart.
Meanwhile, here's the AI Overview on Singing:
- Upbeat music can release dopamine, while relaxing music lowers cortisol (the stress hormone), which in turn lowers heart rate and blood pressure.
- Music provides an outlet for expression and can help individuals process difficult emotions, with even sad music having a cathartic effect.
- Songs connected to memories can activate the brain's pleasure center, and learning to play music can enhance cognitive skills, learning, and motor control.
- Music can increase dopamine, the "feel-good" chemical, and is used to improve mood and provide a sense of empowerment.
- Music therapy can decrease pain perception, reduce the need for pain medication, and improve quality of life for those with chronic or acute pain.
- It can aid in post-stroke recovery, help with symptoms in neurological disorders like Parkinson's, and has been shown to reduce seizures in some children with epilepsy.
- Music can lower heart rate, blood pressure, and respiratory rate.
- Listening to music can reduce anxiety and nausea associated with treatments like chemotherapy.
- Receptive therapy: Listening to carefully selected music to guide mood or promote relaxation.
- Active therapy: Creating music through singing, drumming, or playing instruments to engage with and heal the brain.
- Neurologic music therapy: Specialized techniques used in hospitals and rehabilitation centers to help patients recover from brain injuries and neurological disorders by building new neural pathways








